Things I Will Not Miss Hearing Once Youngest Child (Finally) Leaves For College, The List:

Throwback to April 2, 2015

1. “Did you put my wet clothes in the dryer?”

2. Music coming from his room at 2 AM.

3. His alarm going off before mine, especially on mornings right after I still heard music at 2 AM.

3. “Have you seen my iPod?”

4. “Have you seen my sunglasses?”

5. “Does this shirt look too wrinkled to wear?”

6. “My car is almost out of gas.”

7. “What’s a good synonym to use here?”

8. “How do you cite this in MLA format?”

9. “No, I definitely don’t want to go to prom. I think.”

10. “I know this tea is your favorite, but can I have the last bottle for my lunch?”

11. “Did you put my dry clothes in my room?”

12. “Will you proofread this 12 page paper?”

13. “Yeah, I know it’s 2 AM, but will you look at the final slide of my Powerpoint?”

14. The shower running at 2:10 AM.

15. “No, I haven’t decided on a college yet, but I have it narrowed down to 3. I think.”

Things That Are Great About Traveling During This (Sort of) Post-CoVid Summer, The List:

  1. Everyone on the plane gets a FULL can of their own, individual soft drink. Were any of us ever really satisfied with one half-filled plastic glass of Diet Coke?
  2. Hotels have less decorative bedding. Although the bolsters, throw pillows and bed scarves may have looked attractive, I always struggled with where to put them once I turned down the bed…and whether they were clean enough to use.
  3. People are still–perhaps subconsciously–keeping physically distant from one another when approaching displays in museums and visitor centers. This is making us all more polite and more patient.
  4. The aforementioned museums and visitor centers, especially ones administered by federal or state agencies, all display signs stating that mask wearing is no longer required for the fully vaccinated. So when I look around and see almost none of my fellow tourists wearing a mask, I internally rejoice that oh-so-many of us believe in science and have indeed been vaccinated! Wow! So many people in compliance!
  5. Being able to travel again has made me mellow, so I tamp down the righteous indignation that wants to erupt in me, because I know that many of the people I mention in #4 are probably less than truthful about their vaccine status, but I choose to be blissfully optimistic.
  6. Many young kids are wearing masks (way to go, responsible parents!), which muffle the sounds of whining and hide drool and runny noses.
  7. More people are actually washing their hands when done using the restroom.
  8. Many restaurants still have their tables spaced further apart, which allows for more intimate dining experiences and fewer opportunities for others to eavesdrop on my snide remarks. (See #4, for example.)
  9. More people than ever are enjoying the great outdoors, and specifically our beautiful national and state parks.

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #16: R.M.’s home bar, Woodbrook subdivision, Charlottesville, Virginia

Enjoyed: Sunday, July 4, 2021

Listed on the menu: No menu. RM has a well-stocked bar, which includes a beautifully-displayed collection of fine whiskies from around the world, so he offered us a range of options.

Ingredients: Homemade Luxardo cherry and juice muddled with a sugar cube drenched with 3 dashes of Angostura bitters, Four Roses Single Barrel bourbon, and ice.

The occasion: A casual supper to celebrate Independence Day.

My rating: **** out of 5. The extra dose of cherry juice made the drink pleasantly sweet, and the quality bourbon made it smooth.

Final thoughts: This was the first time since the pandemic that Husband and I ate indoors at a non-family-member’s home. How refreshing it was! Our hosts, SM and RM, are very hospitable and listened graciously to all our (long) vacation stories. They are fabulous human beings. A toast to enduring friendships!

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #15: Vertex Sky Bar, Hotel Alex Johnson, Rapid City, South Dakota

Enjoyed: Monday, June 28, 2021

Listed on the menu: Not specifically, but the cocktail menu did say, “Ask Us About Our Old Fashioneds!” So I did, and our bubbly server actually pulled out a chair at our table and sat down and told me about my options. (I think the poor young woman was delighted to find an excuse to simply sit!)

Ingredients: Bulleit rye, simple syrup, and Burlesque Bitters (described as a blend of hibiscus, acai berry, and long pepper).

The occasion: This was our final night in South Dakota. I usually try to end our vacations with a splurge, so we were staying at the most recognizable hotel in Rapid City, Hotel Alex Johnson, built in 1927. From the outside, the hotel looks staid and proper, but the lobby area impressed me immediately with its Lakota artwork, stone fireplace, and mounted bison heads. Happily, the tenth floor was devoted to a multi-level roof-top bar and restaurant with a full 360 degree view of the second largest city in South Dakota.

My rating: **** out of 5. The bitters gave the drink a specific taste, which enhanced the spiciness of the rye. However, I think these bitters would have been better suited to a gin cocktail.

Final thoughts: I had made a reservation for post-supper cocktails at sunset, and the shadows and colors playing off the surrounding Black Hills did not disappoint. A guest at a neighboring table pointed out the outline of a dinosaur (maybe a brontosaurus?) on a hill in the distance. Husband chuckled as he sipped his Lagavulin. South Dakota, thanks for treating us well.

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #14: Snitches, Tin Lizzie Gaming Resort, Deadwood, South Dakota

Enjoyed: Sunday, June 27 , 2021

Listed on the menu: No, but this was a restaurant inside a casino, for heaven’s sake, and the bar looked to be very well-stocked. And yes, an Old Fashioned could be made! Shortly after my first sip, I asked our waitperson about the ingredients. She sent the bartender our way, and he happily explained his version of the cocktail to us.

Ingredients: Yellowstone Select Kentucky Straight Bourbon, caramel simple syrup made with a Four Roses Bourbon reduction, bitters, large ice cube, orange slice, maraschino cherry.

The occasion: This evening was our second in Deadwood, and the end of our sixth day of vacation. In the morning, we drove to Wyoming to see Devil’s Tower National Monument. (Yes, so worth the trip!) After a hike around the base of the tower, we drove home via Sundance (yes, and posed for photos with a statue of the Sundance Kid) and then down the Spearfish Canyon Byway. (Wow, this part of the world is so beautiful!) We are not gamblers, so the casinos did not entice us, but the restaurant’s high ratings did. We opted for the $42 per person all-you-can-eat tasting menu. The restaurant was only half-full this evening, so the chef actually came to our table several times to ask which “petite” dishes we enjoyed most–and he suggested a few of his favorites. By the end of our long meal, we had sampled blue-cheese wedge salad, Caesar salad, sashimi, grilled shrimp cocktail (Husband’s favorite), bison filet with hearts of palm, filet mignon with cherries (my favorite), asparagus, twice-baked potato, salmon, scallops, cheesecake, and chocolate-coconut gelato. Best meal of our entire trip!

My rating: ***** of 5. The bartender was proud of his work–all our drinks this evening were delicious. The Old Fashioned was as carefully thought out as all the food on the menu. The rich caramel flavors– from both bourbons he used– coated my mouth in a most pleasant way.

Final thoughts: We spent more money tonight on alcohol than on food. (Oh, boy!) And then the restaurant offered us $20 of free play at the slot machines. (We didn’t win anything.) We asked the chef how he kept his prices so low, and he chuckled and told us that the casino was heavily subsidizing his costs. So, we would like to thank all the Tin Lizzie patrons for helping us to have an incredible experience.

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #13: Mustang Sally’s, Deadwood, South Dakota

Enjoyed: Saturday, June 26, 2021

Listed on the menu: Yes, with a choice of bourbons.

Ingredients: Knob Creek Bourbon, maple simple syrup, bitters, Luxardo cherry, orange slice for garnish.

The occasion: This was Day 5 of our South Dakota adventure. (The previous day, Husband drove us through rocks and mud and gravel and mud in our rented ATV. There are hundreds of miles of trails in the Black Hills National Forest, and we managed a 110 mile trip in 6.5 hours. Alas, only wine was available at last night’s meal, so the much-desired Old Fashioned had to wait. Oh, and I needed to be sober, since I was the designated driver to Mount Rushmore. We chose to go in the evening, to see the illumination. I loved it.) In the early morning, we rode the 1880s Train from Hill City to Keystone and back, and then we drove all the legs of the Peter Norbeck Scenic Byway. Iron Mountain Road was our favorite, especially the “pigtail” bridges. The Needles Highway was impressive, but frustrating to Husband, since it was drizzling and fellow drivers were not being careful nor courteous. Our next stop was the Crazy Horse Memorial–likewise impressive–and then a leisurely drive to Deadwood. We were exhausted and hungry, and soon discovered that all the steakhouses near our Main Street hotel were closed as of 9 PM. We were not expecting that, since the casinos in town are open 24/7. We finally found an empty table at Mustang Sally’s and had to settle for hamburgers. By now, I was so very ready for a drink!

My rating: **** out of 5. Knob Creek is a solid bourbon, so that’s a win. I also enjoyed the slight maple flavor of the simple syrup. Plus, even though we were seated outdoors, the drink came in an actual glass! The higher rating, however, comes mostly from the value of the drink: this was definitely a double shot of bourbon and the price was $8. Unbelievable!

Final thoughts: In the last 145 years, Deadwood has attracted gold miners, outlaws, card sharks, and prostitutes. In 1991, casinos became legal, and now the town is re-vitalized and teeming with tourists. We arrived on a hot Saturday night, and the gamblers and drinkers were out in full force. A young man at a table behind us was clutching a life-sized inflatable doll. Cheers! Let the cheap drinks flow! And, oh, yes, the Black Hills are gorgeous.

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #12: Begging Burro Mexican Bistro, Custer, South Dakota

Enjoyed: Thursday, June 24 , 2021

Listed on the menu: No, but the menu stated that cocktails were available. I asked our very friendly waiter if an Old Fashioned was possible. He thought for perhaps 10 seconds and told me that one could be made.

Ingredients: Orange juice, whiskey, probably a splash of Angostura bitters, and an orange slice. The drink was served in a glass from the neighboring brewery.

The occasion: This was the third day of our vacation in South Dakota. We had left the Badlands National Park area in the morning. Our first stop this day was Hot Springs, where we swam and soaked in warm mineral-rich pools. In the mid-afternoon, we joined a cave tour in Wind Cave National Park. Then we drove up scenic roads to Custer for a 2 night stay. Downtown Custer was filled with souvenir shops and hamburger joints, but we wanted Mexican food, and the Begging Burro provided an excellent meal. I had scrumptious pork tacos, and Husband had the pork shank with fried leeks. For dessert, we shared a mole brownie with strawberry sauce.

My rating: ** out of 5. The drink was tasty, yes, but this was not really an Old Fashioned, so I gave it a lower rating. Husband described it as a “Whiskey Screwdriver” and that’s exactly right. The main ingredient was definitely orange juice.

Final thoughts: I would return to this restaurant, but next time, I would copy Husband and drink margaritas, which were unsurprisingly, the house specialty. Oh, yes, and the Black Hills are gorgeous.