My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #105: Zocalo, Charlottesville, Virginia

Enjoyed: Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Listed on the menu: Yes, as “Bourbon & Spice,” one of the seasonal cocktails.

Ingredients: Bulleit bourbon, Montenegro, Roth & Winter Orchard Pear, orange bitters, spicy bitters, with cinnamon stick and star anise as garnish.

The occasion: For the past several New Year’s Eves, we have gone out to dine with our dear friends. This time we selected Zocalo, on Charlottesville’s downtown mall. The menu looked interesting, and the cocktails looked intriguing. Our food and drinks mostly lived up to expectations. And as always, conversation flowed and good vibes abounded.

My rating: *** out of 5. The drink was full of flavor, but I was hoping it would taste more “winter-y” since cinnamon and star anise are often used in Christmas recipes. I was looking for pear and orange flavors, too, but the dominant tone was set by the bourbon. I wondered if the bartender simply made a traditional Old Fashioned and then merely tossed in the advertised garnishes.

Final thoughts: Being with long-time friends is fun and very comforting, too. We all agreed that 2025 wasn’t the best year–and we agreed to approach 2026 with hope and optimism. Fingers crossed.

Things That I Think Are Great About Being Bilingual, The List:

  1. Studies have shown that children raised in bilingual environments excel in reasoning, memory, and problem-solving skills.
  2. I seemed to have an easier time getting good grades in my high school and college foreign languages classes (in my case, French and Russian).
  3. During my college days in central Indiana, I greatly enjoyed astounding fellow students who would hear me speaking on the phone with my parents. Several friends admitted to me that I was the first person they ever met who was raised in a bilingual household.
  4. For a brief period of time (during my university studies), I was able to call myself a polyglot.
  5. My sister and I can simply chat in Polish when we need to convey secrets or nasty gossip.
  6. I have been able to unwittingly eavesdrop on private conversations in international airports, big-city department stores, and the like. And some of these conversations have been hilarious.
  7. I can watch Polish movies without having to turn on pesky subtitles.
  8. I can read all the incredible recipes my mom passed on to me. And I think in Polish when I cook, or sew, or crochet, since my mom taught me these skills.
  9. I can communicate easily with each one of my cousins, both in the USA and Poland.
  10. Traveling (especially in Slavic-language speaking countries) is easier, since I can readily pick up the key phrases. (On our most recent trip to Croatia, I suspect that my attempts to speak a few words in Croatian resulted in complimentary drinks and desserts. Can’t complain about that.)
  11. I can dream in both languages!
  12. I know twice as many Christmas carols as most people.
  13. I enjoy feeling (relatively) unique.
  14. There are few things as beautiful as reading poetry in the actual language it was written in.
  15. Sometimes a profanity in Polish (or even Russian) is much more fitting in a situation, and therefore much more satisfying to use.
  16. I believe that my bilingual upbringing (thanks, dear parents!) has molded me into a person with a deeper empathy and respect for other cultures.

My Old Fashioned Tour of America, Stop #104: The American Audubon Dining Room, The Omni Homestead Resort, Hot Springs, Virginia

Enjoyed: Thursday, December 4, 2025

Listed on the menu: Yes, as “Audubon Old Fashioned”

Ingredients: Woodford Reserve Bourbon, Angostura Bitters, Luxardo Cherry, Orange, Simple Syrup

The occasion: Husband and I have been treating ourselves to pre-Christmas get-away weekends since 2015. We find that such adventures help put us in the holiday mood. Staying at the Homestead in December has been a dream of mine for years, and indeed, the resort met all my expectations. The holiday decorations were extraordinarily pretty, the historic hot-springs baths were relaxing, the food was yummy, and the customer service was top-notch. To top it off, a few inches of snow fell overnight on our final night, creating a true Winter Wonderland of mountain scenery.

My rating: **** out of 5. The staff member who took our drink order told me that the Old Fashioned is one of his favorite drinks to mix, and that he would do a wonderful job for me. He did. The drink was exactly what I wanted, since the ingredients were indeed classic. (I am finding that I am awarding 5 stars to more “creative” Old Fashioneds than this one was.)

Final thoughts: The American Audubon Dining Room was exquisite–colonial, yes, but mostly white with gorgeous chandeliers. A grand piano stood in the center, and the pianist played a soft mixture of holiday tunes. The dress code is no longer super-formal, yet we did put on some fancier clothes, and let the atmosphere transport us back in time a bit. What a lovely evening!

My Old Fashioned Tour, Special International Edition #6: Gradska Kavana Arsenal Restaurant, Dubrovnik, Croatia

Enjoyed: Friday, October 17, 2025

Listed on the menu: Yes, as “No. 1 Old Fashioned”

Ingredients: bourbon, apple syrup, maple, Angostura and orange bitter

The occasion: Our final full day in Croatia was in the medieval walled city of Dubrovnik. The town center was crowded on this Friday afternoon, since several cruise ships had docked. Although our tour guide patiently guided us through the commotion, we couldn’t help but be distracted by the wedding celebration–music and dancing and a procession through the streets–happening right in front of us. We were a bit weary at this point, and needed to sit and have refreshment. We headed for the first tables we saw, right to the side of the church. I looked around, and I saw that the building behind the cafe was the Marin Držić Theatre. Fate had stepped in! We had to get a drink here, since we kept encountering the Držić name–the surname of Husband’s grandmother! Happily, a table right in front was free, so we lingered for an hour and watched the tourists and the continuing wedding festivities.

My rating: ***** out of 5. Wow, what a presentation! (See the photo!) And the drink was delicious, too. I need to figure out just what “apple syrup” is–perhaps the fruitiness is what gave the drink an extra complexity.

Final thoughts: As we enjoyed our refreshments, we noticed a bronze statue of Držić right past the cafe. Awesome! Could we have had cocktails in a better spot? And of course, we did what every tourist does: we rubbed Držić’s nose for good luck. (And what a grand nose it is!) Happily, later in the evening we were able to purchase a storybook about him (written in English), as well as a translation of his most famous play, “Uncle Maroje.”

This from the internet: Marin Držić was a prominent Croatian playwright and writer from the Republic of Ragusa, born in 1508 and known for his influential comedies that reflect the social realities of the Renaissance period. He is often referred to as Croatia’s Shakespeare and is celebrated for works like “Dundo Maroje” and “Novela od Stanca.”